My best WOW friend has stopped playing. I am devastated. We played together for over 4 and a half years. We started TakeTen together – he as GM and me as one of his Officers.
When he stopped I could not bear to see the guild die, so I took over the role of GM. My guildies seem to think that I will make a good GM, but I won’t. It’s too much pressure, too much stress. I am a great supporter, assistant. I am not a good leader. I hate annoying people, I get upset when anyone else gets upset. I hurt if people are hurt.
I am wracked with guilt because I am thinking about joining a different guild. I am also bothered because I am thinking about raiding with another guild becaue we can’t get enough people together to get a raid going at the moment.
I think I might be better off moving server and starting fresh, which got me thinking about what would be the ideal guild for me …
- One that has killed 50000 critters so I can get my Armadillo Pet (we are currently on 28000)
- One that will help me get a Dark Phoenix Hatchling by having 55 reputations at Exalted (we are currently on 42).
- A guild that raids about 3 nights a week, after 21:30 server time and until no later than about 00:30.
- A guild that can kill at least the first 2 or 3 bosses in BWD and BOT normal. I don’t mind the odd wipes, but I do expect people to turn up having read about the bosses and with food and flasks.
- Somewhere that people chat, play socially and where guild chat is lively and friendly.
- I would ideally like a PVE realm because I don’t like PVP unless I choose to do it (which is not very often). I don’t mind RP, but am not practised in it, so a full on RP guild probably wouldn’t suit me.
I am a social animal. I treat the people in my guild the same way that I treat my real life friends (my husband says this is where I go wrong and why I end up hurt).
I am a Holy/Disc priest. Do not ask me to go Shadow. It doesn’t work – I always end up out of shadow form healing people by accident! I don’t mind being Horde or Alliance, although it would cost more to move server and change faction to Horde, I can make pretty Blood Elves, so that would be OK
Oh, and I’m in Europe. Which is a shame because a lot of the blogs I read about and the guilds that sound interesting are in the US
I don’t know yet if I will move, if I will carry on and try and make my guild work or if I will stop playing altogether. For now I am lost and confused. I miss my husband and my best friend playing. I miss my bears….
If you know somewhere that might suit me, please email me – my details are on the About page.















